Jumat, 23 November 2012
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The meaning of 'True Love' continues to be sought and explored. Man from age to age as if it never get bored talking about it. Actually? what is 'True Love' and how Muslims view him?
Society anywhere in the world are currently being harassed by the myth of 'True Love', and carried away by the dream of 'Sacred Love'. Therefore,-do, they prepare to celebrate the day of love "Valentine's Day".
A researcher from Researchers at the National Autonomous University of Mexico reveal the results of his research was so surprising. He said: A love affair doomed to a saturation point, not only because of sheer boredom, but because of the chemicals in the brain that activate the love has gone. Sense of infatuation and love one will not last more than 4 years. If it has been 4 years old, love vanished, and there remained only sex drive, not pure love again.
According to him, his infatuation appears at the beginning of falling in love and spending caused by the activation of specific chemical components of the brain, such as dopamine, endorphins, pheromones, oxytocin, neuropinephrine that makes someone feel happy, flowery and radiant. However, as time goes by, and the responsibility and exposure to storm dynamics of the effects of the hormones were diminished and disappeared.
Brother, if you love your spouse because of beauty or good looks, so this time I'm sure the notion that he was the prettiest and most handsome, has faded.
When the first taste you love him because he is a man grows rich, then I'm sure at this time, is no longer a spectacular wealth in your eyes.
If you love spring because he was a dignitary and respected in the community, then the current position is no longer shiny bright as the first blinding your view.
Your ancestors have warned you to always be aware of this fact. They revealed this fact in an expression that is quite unique: the neighboring grass look greener than the grass itself.
You are curious to know, why is the fact this could happen?
Discover the secrets to the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam following:
المرأة عورة فإذا خرجت استشرفها الشيطان. رواه الترمذي وغيره
"The woman is awrah (to be covered), when he he came out of his house, then Satan would so pretty impressive (in the eyes of non-mahram men)." (Reported by At Tirmizy and others)
Arabs express this phenomenon by saying:
كل ممنوع مرغوب
Any such forbidden interest (lure).
You may ask, then how should I behave?
Be reasonable and always use common sense and your conscience. Thus, the veil of romance does not make your view blurry and you can not easily washed away by boasting lies and false promises.
Maybe you are again asked: If so, who is actually eligible for holy love me? To whom should I love my tether strap?
Listen to the answer of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam:
تنكح المرأة لأربع لمالها ولحسبها وجمالها ولدينها, فاظفر بذات الدين تربت يداك. متفق عليه
"Typically, a woman is married for four reasons: for her wealth, position, beauty and because of his religion. Should you marry a religious woman, surely you will be happy and lucky. "(Agreed alaih)
Brother! Love your boyfriend because of faith, charity and pious akhlaqnya, that eternal love. Do not you ever crave love adorning yourself even if you have entered into the grave and later resurrected on the Day of Resurrection? Would not you expect that your boyfriend is always loyal and love you even though you have elderly and even had inhabited the grave?
Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
ثلاث من كن فيه وجد حلاوة الإيمان: أن يكون الله ورسوله أحب إليه مما سواهما, وأن يحب المرء لا يحبه إلا لله, وأن يكره أن يعود فى الكفر كما يكره أن يقذف فى النار. متفق عليه
"Three things, if all three exist in a person, surely he felt the sweetness of faith: When Allah and His Messenger more than he loves apart from both, she loves someone, she does not love him except for Allah, and he hates to return to kufr after God saved him, like his hatred if you want pushed into the flames. "(Agreed alaih)
Yahya bin Mu'az said: "Love for God will not increase just because you love to do good to you, and will not be reduced because it be rude to you." That is because you love blossom grows because of the faith, pious and charitable noble morality, so that when the faith of the person you love does not grow, then love you also will not increase. And conversely, if the faith of the one you love is reduced, then love you also helped reduced. You love him not because of the material, the rank or position of a handsome face, but because he is faithful and noble berakhlaq. This is the eternal holy love my brother.